My Confession : Ex-man spitefully got me pregnant
STAR, I used to live with my now ex-man for a whole year and things were going alright until I found out he was cheating on me.
He left his Facebook chat open and I found out he was flirting with a lot of girls and he even had sex with multiple of them in the same bed we shared.
I saw the pictures to prove it, so I told him it was over.
But the thing is, I came from another parish and I didn't have any close friends in the area, so I didn't have anywhere to go.
I ended up still living with him, so, you know, eventually things happened, and we ended up having sex.
The last time we got intimate he didn't have a condom, so I told him to make sure he didn't ejaculate in me, but he spitefully did and told me he couldn't help it.
Anyway, I thought I was in the safe period of my cycle, so I didn't take a morning-after pill. I eventually moved back in with my big sister and that's when I realised that my period was late.
I told my sister and she made me take a pregnancy test, which confirmed my fears. I wanted to keep the child, but I wasn't in a position to raise it on my own.
When I told my ex that I was pregnant, he said I was trying to con him and that he's not going to mind a jacket. I was so stressed out that I couldn't eat or sleep for days.
Eventually, my sister borrowed some money from a friend and took me to a doctor who helped me to 'dash weh' the belly.
I'm still so ashamed to think about what I did, but I'd rather do that than make the child suffer.