Is he playing me, pastor?

January 25, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I am living with this guy one year and a couple months now. My life has been a living hell. He pretends to love me. The reason why I think this way is because he is still communicating with his ex- girlfriend. He collects pictures of her and also flirts with other women. As soon as I go to the country to visit my mom, he invites them over to our house. When I confronted him about it, he says I am annoying or just insecure. I tried leaving him, but I keep falling for his apologies. He apologises at times and even shed tears. I don't even know what to do anymore. I don't know if he is playing me or if he is

serious. Pastor, I really need an advice. I am at the point where I feel hurt because this guy might be playing me.

T.

Dear T.,

I am sure that this young man is not serious about this relationship. Perhaps it is convenient for him to be living with you, but it does not appear that he loves you or that he cares. I hope that you are working. You are not to continue to make a fool of yourself, and to allow his tears to deceive you. What I am trying to say is that you need to love yourself more than you love this man and end the relationship with him. I repeat, he is not serious about this relationship. Therefore, get out.

Pastor

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