Did he forgive me for cheating?
I was in a wonderful relationship that I enjoyed so much, but I cheated on my man with another man. So he left me for a month and then he found another woman. Out of the blue, he called and told me that he misses me and wants to see me. We started the relationship from where we left off. I really love and want to be with this man.
Please tell me what to do, pastor. I am confused because he has forgiven me so easily and I am ashamed of what I did.
If this relationship that you had with this wonderful man was so grand, why did you cheat on him? Was it that the other man had offered you more money? After the guy found out that you cheated, he left you and got involved with another woman. Now both of you are back together with each other. He missed not having sex with you, but that does not mean that he has forgotten what you did or he has forgiven you.
Let me ask you these questions. Now that you are back with him, are you going to be faithful to him? And, if you believe that this man has forgiven you, would he be willing to accompany you to see a family counsellor? Right now, everything is under the carpet because it suits him to keep it that way. I repeat, it is just sex this man wants and if you do not believe me, test him by telling him that you are willing to see a family counsellor. I know he will not agree. He would say that a counsellor is not needed because he will not be willing to commit himself to this relationship.