Do you think my boyfriend is cheating, pastor?


April 04, 2016

Dear Pastor,

My boyfriend and I get along well. We don't live together. My problem is that he got a new phone and I told him to download WhatsApp on it so we could communicate more. From that day he has become a changed man. He is always on it and not even texting me.

For the Easter weekend, he asked me to send him some credit, so I did. He didn't even say thanks. When I called him and asked him if he could not have said thanks, he got upset and said he will send it back. I told him that I didn't want it back. I was sick for the weekend. He didn't even call or text me to see if I was all right. I sent him another text, he read it but didn't reply. I called him in the morning and asked him what was the problem? He said he was sleeping. I got upset and hung up the phone. He has been passing his limit now.

I recently got a job {not even a year} and he wants me to have a baby by him. Pastor, I am not ready. I am just 23 years old. I haven't accomplished what I want and I don't want my future to be ruined. I will be starting university this coming August.

Do you think he is cheating? I am really confused and need your advice.

Confused Girlfriend

Dear Confused Girlfriend,

This man is very disrespectful and he does not hold you in high esteem. You are wasting your time with him. He does not know how to treat a lady. You should stop calling him because you are giving him the impression that he is special. There is nothing special about him. If his new phone would cause him to be behaving as an idiot, what would he have done if he had bought a car?

Plan your life without him. I hope that you will indeed go to university.


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