Is kissing another person cheating?


April 22, 2016

Dear Pastor,

This is my second time writing to you. I am a 19-year-old woman. I love my boyfriend so much. The problem is that I don't enjoy his kissing. He satisfies me in every single way apart from that. I believe it is because he has big, thick lips.

My ex-boyfriend lips are soft and small so I enjoyed kissing him. He wants me back but I told him I would never cheat on my boyfriend. Sometimes when he comes close to me I have to try and distance myself from him and not look in his eyes or on his lips.

Would I be wrong if I kiss him? His lips are amazing. Is kissing another person cheating? I just want to enjoy kissing again, at least once again. Please help me, Pastor.

I didn't tell my boyfriend that I don't like his lips and I am tempted to kiss my ex. What should I do?


Dear S.D.,

You better keep your lips sealed. Don't ever tell your boyfriend that you are tempted to kiss your ex-boyfriend because his lips are small and soft and your boyfriend's lips are big and thick. He would feel that you want to do more than just kiss and your desire is to go to bed with him also.

A kiss on the cheek is different from a kiss on the lips. A smack on the lips is not what you desire. You desire much more than that, so, please, don't get involved in any form of kissing with this guy.


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