My man won't stop cheating


May 04, 2016

Dear Pastor,

I have been reading your column since I was 15 years old. I am now 24 years old and I have been in a relationship for over three years. My partner and I have a daughter together. However, he is cheating on me. When we started talking he had a different person in his life. They eventually parted because she was disrespecting me. Soon after, I became pregnant, and, for a while, everything was great. But then he started acting up again.

Each time I talk to him about his behaviour, he says he is going to stop, but he doesn't. I can see that he wants to stop cheating, but it's like he can't seem to stop himself. I don't know what to do anymore. I want to get married and live a normal Christian life with my family.

Tell me what to do, please. Thank you and God bless.


Dear D.S.,

You knew this man was a cheater and you allowed him to get you pregnant. Perhaps you believed that after becoming pregnant by him, he would stop going with other women. Having children with a man does not necessarily mean that the man will stay with the woman.

If you are not prepared to share this man with other women, you will have to end the relationship with him. He is clearly not ready to settle down with any woman.

So, I wish you well. Make your own decision.


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