His penis is too small

December 07, 2016

Dear Pastor
I am 30 years old and I am writing you for your opinion. I started to have sex when I was 17 years old. By the time I was 20 I had four different boyfriends. I was sexually active with all of them.

I left college two years ago and I am with a man. I started to go to church recently, but this man and I are living together. He is so kind and gentle and he treats me well.

I was planning to leave him for one reason only and that is because he has the smallest penis I have ever seen for a big man.

When I say small, I mean very small. When he takes off his pants and he stands before me, I can see his testicles but hardly his penis.

Sometimes I play with it and stretch it, but it looks like a child’s penis and I have even seen boys with larger penises.

Apart from the size of this man’s penis, I love him so much.

It does not bother him at all when I talk to him about his size. He told me that sex is not all that a woman should want from a man.

I know that, pastor, but I want to find out what can this man do to increase the size of his penis.

If I have facts and can prove to him that I am correct in what I say to him, he accepts it.

Please tell me what he can do to become bigger.
H. K.
Dear H. K.
You have found a good man. It is said that good men are not easy to find. Therefore, I am going to suggest to you is that you try to hold on to this man.

He has his short comings, but they are not insurmountable. He has a very good temperament and he is willing to corporate with you. It would be unwise if you do not corporate with him.

You say that you are concerned with the size of his penis. He is smaller than any of the guys you have been to bed with. So let us reason this thing together.

You see, men who are considered to have very small penises are those who carry “the flaccid length of less than four centimeters [1.6 inches], or a stretched or erect length of less than 7.5 centimeters [3 inches] should be considered candidates for penile lengthening.”

In the 'Journal of Urology' study, researchers found the following among the group of 80 men:
* An average penis size of 8.8 cm (3.5 inches) when flaccid,
* An average penis size of 12.9 cm (5.1 inches) when erect.

Jamaican women always insist that the size of the penis matters. And as an experienced young woman, you seem to agree that size matters.

I am wondering whether your man is fat. If a man is fat, it can affect the size of his penis. 

I am confident that the size of this man’s penis can be enlarged. It is a very costly operation, and I have said all of the above to tell you to go easy on this man and to make an appointment with a urologist to discuss this matter.

I repeat, work with him. Hope is not lost. I would surely encourage you to marry him. You have stopped the running around with every Tom, Dick and Harry. Settle with this man.


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