Found out that my girlfriend is a hooker

March 29, 2017

Dear Pastor,

I am a 30-year-old man and I have a girlfriend. I picked up this girl because she begged me to take her in. She had a boyfriend and he was always beating her. She told me that his problem was jealousy. She couldn't talk to any man and let him see. After I took her in, I found out that she tells a lot of lies, and it is because of the wrong things she was doing why she and the guy couldn't get along. She cannot be satisfied with one man.

She has never held a job. She told me she used to work at a club. When I checked it out, the girls told me that no one with that name worked at the club. They asked me to describe her. When I described her, they said that she was not employed there, but she used to hang around to catch men. And the name they called her was derogatory. This girl even took drugs.

 

OFFERING SEX

 

Pastor, I could not believe that this was the girl I was sleeping with. After I left the club and went home, she was packing her two bags. I asked her why she was packing and she said she was going to the country to visit her mom. I told her what I had heard and she denied the whole thing. She tried to sweeten me up by offering me sex, but I refused it. I allowed her to give me a hand job and then I fell asleep. The following morning when I woke up, she was gone, but she took away my cell phone.

This girl is very pretty, but very bad. She was the first prostitute I had sex with, but I didn't know that she was a prostitute. I was too glad to have her as my girlfriend. I did not check her out. I was only sorry for her because her boyfriend was beating her. He knew she was 'selling', but I didn't know.

Do you think I should do the AIDS test and ask her for the money I gave to her when she was living with me? In the short time she was living with me, I gave her more than $50,000.

L.D.

Dear L.D.,

Have you considered that this woman has not done you any wrong apart from telling lies on herself? She knew she was not a good girl. You met her and you did not question her about her background. She needed a place to sleep and you made yourself and your place available, and she accepted the offer. I am not saying that she should have lied about herself, but for a 30-year-old man, you are naÔve.

The girl is a hooker. She was a hooker before she met you, and she remained the same while she was sleeping with you. And she continues (I guess) to practise her profession. You say that she is very beautiful. You are fortunate that she told you where she used to work. She wasn't employed at the club, but it was in that vicinity she practised her profession. She earned money there. You went there asking for the name that she gave you, and perhaps it was her correct name. But, sir, don't you know that women who are engaged in prostitution don't necessarily use their correct name when they are working. That is why the girls at the club asked you to describe her.

You did not say how long you gave this woman shelter. You said you gave her more than $50,000 while she was with you. That girl would not consider $50,000 a lot of money, so don't embarrass yourself by trying to get it back. You could have spent it better, but her pretty face fooled you. So, that money is dead. She took your phone, don't go after that either. Make sure you go and get yourself a check-up at the doctor. It might be prudent for you to do the AIDS test. Go talk to your doctor. I hope you will learn from the mistakes you have made.

Pastor

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