Grandson got the helper pregnant

November 27, 2017
Pregnant mother

Dear Pastor,

I am 19 years old and pregnant. I am working as a helper for the last six months. This couple pays me $8,000 per week. They have their grandson living with them and since I have been there, we have had a secret thing going on. Sometimes when his grandparents are gone to bed, he comes into my room and we have sex. We always use the condom. I keep the condoms in my room. Oh, I should say that he is 18 years old.

One night, he came and I didn't have any condom, so I told him that we should not do it that night. He said that nothing will happen and he would pull out. Well, pastor, that night he did not pulled out. He discharged in me and I am now pregnant.

I did not even know that I was pregnant. His grandmother discovered that I was pregnant before I did and she asked me why is it that I looked different. This young man is still going to school and he is the only man I had sex with. Since I told him that I am pregnant, he has stopped coming to my room. Should I tell his grantparents that it is their grandson who got me pregnant? Can they send me away when it is their grandson who did this to me? I am so worried. Please, help me.

S.T.

Dear S.T.,

You cannot keep this thing as a secret to yourself. You would have to tell your employers that their grandson and you are lovers, and that he is the only man who has been having sex with you. He has not been coming to your room anymore, but the damage has already been done. You have to tell his grandparents and hope that this guy would not deny that both of you have been having sex. And that at one time you had unprotected sex with him, so now you are very much pregnant.

You should also inform the young man about what you are about to do. Tell him that you hope that he would cooperate and don't lie. I hope that his grandparents will not ask you to leave, but that they would do their best to help you prepare for this baby, and that they will see to it that the child is supported.

Don't worry about whether they will ask you to leave. You may find them helpful and cooperative.

Pastor

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