Can't orgasm without oral sex

December 21, 2017

Dear Pastor,

My problem is that I can never seem to relax during sex to reach an orgasm. The only way I ever reach one is by oral sex.

Is there some way I can learn to relax so that I can finally get one by way of penetration? My guy seems to think that he is not doing something right, but I don't think that is the case.

I do not want our sex life to suffer. I love to have sex with him, but things are just not working right on my part.

J.P

Dear J.P.,

You need to go to a family counsellor or sex therapist to discuss this problem. You haven't told me why you can't relax.

People don't relax during sex for many reasons. The family counsellor or sex therapist and you can discuss them.

Pastor

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