His itsy-bitsy penis made me cheat

February 02, 2018

Dear Pastor,

This is the second time that I am writing to you. I wrote to you three years ago about my boyfriend, and you told me to leave him. It was the best advice I could have ever received. I am now with another guy, and I am messing up this relationship. I have cheated on him, and he suspected that I did. I told him that it never happened, but it did. I went to a man's house three times, without my boyfriend knowing.

Once, I skipped work because it was his day off, and that was the only time I could get away to be with him. My boyfriend thought I was at work. I called my boyfriend during the day while I was with the man. I did so because I did not want him to call my office, only to be told I wasn't there. So, I called to check up on him, and I went home early that day and started the cooking.

Last week was his birthday and I wanted to give him something special, so he picked me up at lunch time and we went to a hotel. I am feeling guilty because my boyfriend is trying his best to make me happy. But there is something lacking in our relationship. He has a small penis. This guy is well-gifted, and I don't know what I should do.

I feel like every time I have a chance I will cheat on my boyfriend, but I know it is not right.


Dear S.A.,

I have news for you. You are not only behaving as a bad girl, you are a bad girl. You have a man, and he is not abusing you, yet you are cheating on him. One of these days he is going to find out and he is going to end the relationship with you. Then you, will be free to go to this other man you consider to be your ideal fit.

So many of you girls believe that the size of a man's penis is very important. So if your boyfriend is not 6, 7, or even 8 inches, you all complain. You are trying to be very clever by leaving work, going to spend time with your man friend, and calling your boyfriend from there so that he won't have to check with you during the day. If you know you don't want this man, why don't you just have a discussion with him, tell him that you are unhappy with him and give him the reason?

I know that some men have operated on their private part to make it larger. That is such an expensive type of surgery. But from my research, I understand that women whose men were small, but then had the operation are now very happy. Perhaps you may wish to discuss that with a sex therapist or this man's family doctor.

I can't encourage you to continue cheating on this man. You are going to be the loser. Stop fooling around.


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