Some women are demons from hell
I was once involved with the most ungrateful girl in Jamaica. I sponsored her last three years at UTech. We had a daughter in her final year. After her graduation, she got a temporary job for four months. Then, she bolted off to Canada and married the man I presume was her real lover. She unlawfully left the country with my daughter whom I had raised for the first three years of her life.
Pastor, some women are demons from the pit of hell.
I hope that you will be able to track down this woman so that you will be able to communicate with your daughter. You might feel that this woman betrayed you. Perhaps you think that she should have told you that she was going to leave. But that is not the route she took. She used you to help her to get an education, but true love was never there. And no relationship can do well if genuine love does not exist. You believed that she loved you, and that is why you were willing to spend on her education.
Accept what I say, brother. You have not lost anything by helping this woman to get an education because she is the mother of your child. What you spent on her will help her to be in a better position to help to your daughter. She is a trickster. Wish her well, but try to find your daughter so that at least you can have some sort of relationship with her. And when she comes of age, don't be afraid to tell her that it was her mother who abandoned you.