Want to stop being a womaniser

February 20, 2018

I thank you for the good work that you are doing. I read your column every day. I am having a problem and I need your help.

Pastor, I have a good job. I have a problem with girls. I cannot keep one girl because so many of them want me. I am living with my girlfriend, but I keep many girls on the side.

I am a very handsome guy and girls are always trying to get me to love them. They offer themselves to me. I don't even have to chase them.

I am very gifted. God has given me a gift in my pants and all the girls want a piece of me. I don't want to continue living the way I am living now.

I want to settle down with the girl I am living with. I really want to be true to her and to spend the rest of my life with her.

When I meet a girl and we have sex, she doesn't want me to leave her at all. Even when I say it is all over, she doesn't want to leave me.

I don't want my children to see me as a womaniser and I don't want my girlfriend to get fed up and leave me.

Please, help me.

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Have you ever considered committing your life to God? That is the way to go. You see yourself helpless when it comes to woman and very often when a man has come to the place where he cannot help himself, he has to have a spiritual transformation.

This is what Jesus calls 'born again'. Therefore, I would suggest that you seriously read your Bible, especially the Gospel of John and pray that God will save you and that the Holy Spirit will help you to stop having so many women.

You consider yourself gifted. What you are trying to say is that you have a large penis and you are bragging that girls love the size that you are carrying and that they cannot do without it.

You have to learn to control yourself and the Holy Spirit can help you to do that. I will be praying for you and I wish you well.


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