Christian fiancé eager to have sex

February 15, 2019

Dear Pastor,

I have a boyfriend and both of us are Christians. He has more experience than I do. He said he can't wait for us to have sex. I told him that looking at him, I believe that he would give me lots of trouble that way. He told me no. We went to see our pastor, and we have fixed a date for the wedding.

My boyfriend told me the first position that he would like us to do is the spooning position. I asked him how that is done, and he said we would have to try it. I don't want to try anything before we are married. So, please tell me what is spooning?


Dear B.H.,

Your boyfriend has already indicated what it is. It is a sexual position, and evidently he knows how it is done. I don't have to explain that to you. I could only repeat, it is a sexual position. He is a man of experience, and soon after your wedding day, you would find out what it is. That is all I am prepared to say right now.


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