His small penis isn’t getting me pregnant

June 20, 2019

Dear Pastor,

Greetings to you and your staff. I am the mother of two children for two different men. One was supporting his child, but the other one was not. I am living with another man along with my children. He told me that he would take care of the children and I should not take anything from the children's fathers. He and I don't have any children together.

It seems to me that he is having a problem. He cannot get anybody pregnant because we don't use anything when we are having sex. I have a job. My children respect him. My problem is that I would like to have another child. The two children that I have are boys. Sometimes I don't know what to do. I asked him if he would want us to adopt a little baby girl, and he told me he does not want to adopt children.

This man has a very small penis. When I first met him and we decided to go to bed, he did not even want me to see him naked. I don't know if that is part of the reason why he can't get me pregnant.

People who don't know think that my two children are his. I don't know what to do because I would like to have another child before I am 40. Please tell me what to do.


Dear D.S.,

I hope you won't be tempted to go with another man because you are so eager to become pregnant. It is not unusual for men to refuse to adopt children. They would rather not have children at all. So don't try and force this man to adopt. This gentleman with whom you are living have been taking care of your children. You should be happy about that. If you are always talking to him about wanting another child, it is going to bother him, and he may just come to the place where he may tell you that if you are not happy with him, you should pack up and go.

I am sure that the smallness of his penis has nothing to do with his inability to impregnate you. However, you may want to discuss that with a medical doctor. I would say to you, madam, don't blow up this relationship by becoming intimate with another man. But if you feel that you ought to have another child, you should walk away without embarrassing this man.


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