My married boyfriend wants a threesome

September 09, 2019

Dear Pastor,

I am 17 years old and I am in love with a 43-year-old man. It all started when I was 16. We started talking and immediately hit it off. He knew my age, but I did not know his until we had sex for the first time. Then I got even more shocking news. This man was married, and was also seeing my cousin on the side.

I swallowed my pride and continued the relationship because I really liked him. I wanted to get even with him, so I cheated on him by having a threesome with my friend and her boyfriend. It was a big mistake and I decided to tell him the truth. Pastor, my married man broke up with me. I was very upset because he has three women, and I only gave him 'bun' once.

We had make-up sex the same day, but he did not forgive me. He said the only way he could forgive me is if I gave him a threesome with my friend. He always says he loves me and that he wants to get me pregnant, but I believe he was just talking.

We have been together for one year and three months. He and my cousin had broken up because of me. I always tell him that I can never be his because he is already married. I really love this guy, I really do, but I don't want to see a sad future with him. I want him for myself. Please give me your advice.

Teen

Dear Teen,

Please, I beg you, end the relationship with this man. This man knows that he should not lie to you. He knows that he will not leave his wife and marry you. Yes, he is financially able to assist you, but he is a bad man. He also knows that he should not be having a sexual relationship with your cousin. He is not afraid to let you know what he is doing because he sees you as a girl who is in need. And because of your needs, you are likely to stay with him.

Now, you have made matters worse by having sex with your girlfriend's boyfriend. You did not have to do that. This man is a bad man, as I said before, but he will always use that against you. Now he is asking you to have a threesome with him. How far will he go?

You have not said much about your background, but I will say to you, end the relationship with this man. Go home to your parents. You are being promiscuous, and you may become ill as a result of what you are doing. Please, leave this man alone.

Pastor

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