I don’t think she wants me anymore

November 28, 2019

Dear Pastor,

I am 27 and my girlfriend is 20. Perhaps she is a little too young for me and that is why I need your advice.

When we met, it was joy for the both of us. I became interested in her when I used to stop by her business place to purchase stuff.

She was the one who started talking about how nice I looked.

As time went on, we became interested in each other. When I saw that things started to get serious between us, I decided to introduce her to my relatives.

Pastor, I am telling you the truth, she is a very beautiful woman. She is of light complexion and has long hair. But things have changed, I don't know why. I hardly hear from her.

She doesn't WhatsApp me or call me unless she sees something on my status that interests her. She doesn't even talk much when I call.

But the worst part of it is, she said that no one in her family knows about me, and yet my people know about her.

Pastor, I think I should just let this girl go and find someone who is serious about me.

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Dear Writer,

This woman lost interest in you long ago. Perhaps she has got what she wanted out of you, or she has discovered that what she wants from a man, you are unable to give.

Therefore, I would suggest that you stop making a fool of yourself and move on. Very soon it would be Christmas; get out of this girl's life before she makes demands from you for Christmas.


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