I think my girlfriend is sleeping with our landlord

January 17, 2020

Dear Pastor,

I am 27 years old and I am living with my girlfriend. Both of us were working, but she lost her job. She is trying to get a job, but now she is telling me that she is tired.

So she will not be looking hard until February. I found out that she has been having an affair with the landlord. He is married but his wife is overseas.

She didn't tell me that she cooked for him. I came home one day and she was not on our side of the house. She was over by his side.

When I asked her what she was doing over there, she said she was just cooking some fish for him.

This man can cook. He doesn't need anybody to cook for him. Another time she told me that he asked her to clean and wash for him and he would pay her.

He had a girl doing that type of work, but my girlfriend has told him that she could do it, so he ran his worker away.

The girl told me that my girlfriend and this man had something going on, and that it was my girlfriend who told him to get rid of her.

I can't say that I have caught them in bed together, but I told my girlfriend that she should not go back to this man's place. She started to make a fuss and said that I was too jealous.

Pastor, it has nothing to do with jealousy. This man can give her much more than what I can give her and that is why she is not listening to me.

If she continues to go over there and cook and clean for this man, I am going to leave her.

This is the second time a woman is giving me 'bun' and I know I don't deserve it, so I would let her go and she wouldn't have to pay rent to this man. Tell me if I am wrong or stupid.


Dear T.T.,

The young woman who used to work for your landlord told you that your woman was having an affair with the landlord and she encouraged him to fire her.

You don't know if that is true. But it is not something to ignore, because your girlfriend has become very close to the landlord and is cooking and cleaning for him.

She has denied that she is having an affair with him. However, if you believe the young woman, and if your girlfriend continues to cook and clean for your landlord, I would encourage you to end the relationship with her.

Don't get yourself into any trouble. Walk away from her and don't look back.


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