Brother adamant that his woman must move in

February 16, 2021

Dear Pastor,

I have five brothers and three sisters. My parents struggled with us, but my father built a home. My brothers are not ambitious. My father is not strong anymore, but he can still move around.

One of my brothers moved in his babymother and we told him that could not work, and he told my father some indecent things. My father threatened to chop him up and because of that, he said if he and his girlfriend cannot live at the house, he is not going to contribute to light or water. This girl is a bartender but because of COVID-19, she is out of a job.

She tried to tell my brother to stop cursing our father. I told her to go back to the country. She had to give up the little room she rented, and she lost her job; that is why my brother brought her here. But our place is packed up already, so she can't stay here.

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Dear Writer,

Evidently, your brother has lost respect for his father, and that is why he used indecent language to him. He should be ashamed of himself. He should not have brought his girlfriend to live there without his father's permission. I hope your father would not carry out his threat to chop him up. He should take his girlfriend to another place to live.

Pastor

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