Dear Pastor,
I live in the United States of America. I am a Jamaican female. I was in a relationship with a man for three years. We broke up because I cheated on him, but it was only because he did it first.
He found out about what I did and when he asked me, I said that I did it and now we are not together anymore. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him because I love him so much and he said that he loves me too. But now he is in a new relationship. I am in a new relationship too, but the sad part of this is that I am pregnant for the new guy and I don't love him at all.
I still love my ex-boyfriend with all my heart. What should I do? I need my ex-lover back in my life.
K.A., Miami, Florida
Dear K.A.,
I doubt very much that your ex-boyfriend would want to renew an intimate relationship with you and to think of you as his future wife. If you push he may take you on and have a few hours of good times with you in bed, but it is unlikely that he would ever marry you.
It is also unfortunate that you are now pregnant for a man you do not love. I can only suggest that you have your baby. Give him or her all the love you can.
Ask God to take your life and to direct it as He pleases. The mistakes you have made cannot be undone, but you can make sure that you do not continue making new ones. My prayers are with you.
Pastor.
