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Pressuring me for sex

Dear Pastor,

I am a devoted Christian.You see, for the longest time I have been dating this man and I want to wait to have sex with him but he keeps bothering me.We had oral sex, but I didn't like the taste. Is it supposed to be bitter?

R.M.,

Dear R.M.,

I suggest that you and this young man get married.You say you are a devoted Christian and this man and you have been dating for a long time. He is eager to have sex with you. Why can't you both get married? Even if both of you are in college, you can still get married. Many students who are Christians get married to avoid living in immorality.

You speak about oral sex as if it is not sex. A certain well-known politician will agree with you. But others would not. Concerning the taste, I am afraid I am not qualified to comment thereon.

Pastor