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Sex with my co-worker's fiancé

Dear Pastor,

I am writing this because I need your advice. I like a guy I'm working with but his fiancé also works with us. They are planning to get married very soon. The situation is getting very bad because I think he is messing around with someone else who is also working with the company.

He said that he would do whatever I say but I feel betrayed because I thought he was a good guy. I only want to have sex with him sometimes but I don't want to date him.

L.M., New York, U.S.A.

Dear L.M.,

Keep out of this mess. This guy is having sex with you because it is convenient to do so. Sometimes you feel for sex and he is available and you allow him, but you find it difficult to accept that he is also having sex with another girl apart from his fiancée who works with the company.

Try and fight the feelings that you have for this fellow. Don't make yourself cheap. Pray and ask God to give you a man who would respect you, love you and make you his wife.

Pastor