Tell Me Pastor

Tired of pretending

Dear Pastor,

I am having a lot of problems with boys these days. I have tried going out with different boys and all I get is drama. I can't have a boyfriend who likes me for whom I am. I always have to act like I am someone else, and I am tired of it. What should I do?

J.C., New York

Dear J.C.,

It is never good to pretend. You should always be yourself and whoever does not accept you as you are, let him go his way. Don't worry at all. You will eventually meet a man who would accept you and treat you as a lady. You have your own personality and your own temperaments. Accept yourself and be proud of yourself.

Pastor