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Money or loving

Dear Pastor,

I was born in Jamaica but now live in Antigua. I have been talking to this man from Jamaica. I am 21 and I have a son with him. We are thinking about getting married but I have been talking to this 18-year-old guy. He is different and I love him, but my son's father gives me what I want, no matter what. On the other hand, the boy is great in making love.

What should I do?

Sexy.,

Antigua

Dear Sexy,

I think what you are trying to say is that this 18-year-old guy is a better lover than your child's father. Now you have a choice, if it is only sex you want, the 18-year-old is available. He will tickle your fancy and take you to the mountain top. When he is tired of you he will move on. In the meantime your child's father may find out that you have been playing around with another man and you will be left in the cold.

Hear me now, use common sense. End the relationship with this 18-year-old man if you intend to have a peaceful home. You made a mistake by getting involved with this 18-year -old guy. Antigua is a very small place and pretty soon, everyone will know that you are giving your child's father 'bun'. Don't shame your Jamaican man.

Pastor