Archie Bunker
DEAR PASTOR, The guy I am with now, I have known him for a couple of years. However, the last two years have been very painful for me. He has been abusive and I am scared to leave him. He makes it hard for me to leave.

Voodoo doll
Dear Pastor, I am writing you about something that is resting on my mind. I came to America in 2001, and I met a man. He told me how nice he was, and he really treats me well. He even taught me how to drive and bought me a car.