Dear Pastor,
I am a Christian who is married and I have four children with my husband. My husband is living in Jamaica and I am in Canada. My problem is that I just found out that my husband has two kids with a girl in Jamaica. I talked to him about it. He said he does not love her. Right now I am hurting so much I don't know what to do. I know he must be lonely, but can't this man wear a condom?
I find that a lot of Jamaican men seem to think that having children all over the place make them men, but it does not. I know so many ladies having the same problem here with Jamaican men who are living at home with their wives. This is a really big problem. It's like they don't care where their thing goes, as long as it goes somewhere. Men should realise that they can't keep going around hurting ladies like this. And what about their children?
Pastor, please pray for me and my children. I love the Lord with all my heart and soul and I need to serve him no matter what. Thank you and God bless.
H. B., Montreal, Canada
Dear H. B.,
I will remember you in prayer and I hope that the problem you are experiencing with your husband will be resolved. I hope that you will encourage him to support his children. He said he doesn't love his children's mother. I wonder if he is speaking the truth. I am sure she believes that he loves her. Again, be assured of my prayers. I trust that God will help you to make the correct decisions.
Pastor
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