My mate thinks I am a lesbian
Dear Pastor, I need your fatherly advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and six months and the last eight months have been hell. I met some new friends online and I didn't know what they were up to.

His mom says I am paranoid
Dear Pastor, I have a boyfriend who is also my child's father. I strongly believe he is cheating on me, but his mom and other friends of ours say I am paranoid. We both live aboard but he went to Jamaica recently and I believe he cheated down there.

Twice my age
Dear Pastor, I am living in America. I am at present seeing a 53-year-old man and I am 28. I am madly in love with him but he is planning on going back to his wife. Do you think I should leave him? He says he does not know if he loves me 100 per cent.

Keep up the good work
Dear Pastor, I would very much like to commend you on the wonderful work you are doing. I have been reading your column for the past six years and the advice that you have given people in need is overwhelming.