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Goodbye to 'fawty'
DEAR PASTOR,
I'm in love with a 48-year-old man and I'm only 18. I want to leave but I don't know how, because I love him. We've been together for 4 years. What do I do? K., New York, USA Dear K., This man became involved with you when you were 14 years of age and he was 44. What a shame. Why is it that some men don't seem to understand that they should not become intimate with minors? Evidently you are now concerned about his age. Now that you have come to realise that something is wrong with the relationship, you want to get out. Pastor This man is going to give you trouble. He is going to try to hang on even after he is aware that you want the relationship to end. On the other hand, this relationship will never come to an end until you have fully made up your mind. You said you don't know how to leave him. I suspect that he is supporting you financially. If he is, you will have to stop taking his money and get yourself a job. If you are living with him, you would have to leave. If you are in your parent's home, tell them about the situation and ask them to give you all the help that they can in letting this man know that the relationship is over. Pastor
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