DEAR PASTOR,
I am thirty-one years old. I have been living with this woman for the past nine years. I have always wanted to leave her, but we have two kids together. They are seven and three years old. I do not love her. I told her this. I went out with another woman that I was with before she set me up. She set me up to die. But this woman did not say this to me. She told my children's mother. I don't live with this woman anymore. I am very sick and stressed out.
Please, tell me what to do, pastor.
G.B., St. Catherine, Jamaica
Dear G. B.,
I consider you a very dishonest man. You are also very selfish. You claim that you have always wanted to leave this woman and yet you stayed with her and impregnated her twice. There is no way therefore you can convince me that you always wanted to leave her. You are a user and it is men like you that cause women to say all manner of evil about other men. You don't love her, but you love what she has.
Yes, sir, curse me as much as you want. Time will catch up on you. I am sorry to know that you are not well, but you don't have any proof that it is your children's mother who caused you to be sick. Try your best to seek the Lord. This other woman will tell you anything to get you to go with her. You are not thinking right and if you are not careful, you may cause your children to suffer.
Pastor
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