Dear Pastor,
I met and fell in love with a young man 22 years younger than I am. As a matter of fact, I am three years older than his mother. All he wants me for is monetary things. He has never given me anything for my birthday or Christmas. He lies to me and when I speak to him about his behaviour, he gets upset. He goes wherever he pleases, yet he wants to know my every move. He professes undying love for me, yet he tells me his girlfriend lives overseas and he is not sure if she is coming back. I spoke to him about something he did and he started giving me the silent treatment, i.e. no communication for the seven days. The thing is his mom and I get along very well.
Do I now sever ties from them?
S. B, St. Catherine, Jamaica
Dear S. B.,
Do you know why you find it so difficult to end the relationship with this young man? It is because you are in love with him. And do you know why you get along so very well with his mother? It is because you are both in the same age group. You are three years older than his mother. How do you feel about that? I really don't want to tell you what is going through my mind.
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What really is the matter with you? Can't you think? Is it 'young boy' sex? How does his mother feel about this relationship? And if you are really serious about ending this relationship why can't you tell this young man not to come back? And can't you see that this young man doesn't even respect you? If you continue to be his 'money tree', don't you know he will always hang around you? He told you he has his girlfriend, so what are you to him? Act as a big woman. There is no future between you and this young man.
Pastor
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