Dear Pastor,

I have a problem. I am a married man and I love my wife, but the problem is I have two kids outside the marriage. I'm dating their mothers still, but they don't know that I am married. I love them in different ways, but I also love my wife. She is my best friend and wife.

What should I do? I know the truth will come out someday, but I'm not ready to say anything yet. Thank you and God bless.

T., New York, U.S.A..

Dear T.,

Stop fooling around. If you don't, you are going to lose your wife. It is just a matter of time before she finds out. It is also unfair to the women with whom you have children.

They believe that you are single and perhaps each one is looking forward to marrying you.

Do not continue this wickedness and deception.

Pastor