Dear Pastor,

I am a 26-year-old married woman living in New Jersey. I think my husband is cheating. Do you think I should ask him? I love my husband and I don't want to lose him. I am having sleepless nights thinking about it.

Please pray for me.

N.W.

Dear N.W.,

You haven't said why you believe your husband is cheating. Some may say that you should ask him, but I say to you, it is not wise to ask your man such a question unless you have proof that he is seeing another woman.

Would you like your man to ask you if you are having an affair with another man? You would feel offended. Well, he will feel offended if you ask him if he is having an affair? Some things are better not said.

Pastor