Dear Pastor,

I am a 22-year-old man with an 11 inch penis. Everytime I meet a nice lady and we get to the stage to become intimate, there is always trouble.

I have no problem getting it up, but it's these women that I feel sorry for.

The last one I had sex with lasted for 30 seconds before she cracked and started bleeding.

I was advised by a friend to go in the porn industry, and become a star. All I want is someone to love me as I am, and stick with me regardless of my disadvantage. If it's possible I'll put a ring on it so I can satisfy my wife peacefully. I don't know what to do. I need your fatherly advice.

R.G.,

Dear R.G.,

People often say that men with large penises are gifted. From what you have said your gift is very large and heavy.

It has become burdensome. Contrary to what your friend has said about your becoming a porn star, how many women would be able to bear your burden?

My dear, sir, I wish not to take your problem lightly; nevertheless, I must confess that there is no easy answer to your problem.

I could only suggest that you go to a doctor for advice. In the meantime, please do not bring pain and suffering to any other woman.

Put sex in the back burner until you have received professional help.

Pastor

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