Dear Pastor,

I am writing you in regard to my boyfriend. We've been together almost six years, but I think he has a problem. He keeps telling me he wants to have a threesome. I told him I don't want to do it, because I don't like the idea.

Every time he finds a number for one of my friends, he calls them.

In 2003, one of my friends that I have known for a long time was not talking to me because of him. Another of my friends is not talking to me because of it. I found out he did it. On Tuesday, I found out he was calling one of my friends and I asked him and he lied about it.

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The funny thing is that he calls them and they call him back. In all, it is four friends so far that he has asked to have a threesome with him. What should I do? Should I leave this man? Does he need counselling? He claims he loves me, but why does he keep doing it over and over again?

Please tell me what to do.

R.M., St. Catherine, Jamaica

Dear R.M.,

I strongly suggest that you end the relationship with this man. He is playing with his health.

He is a playboy and even if you were to marry him he would want to bring another woman in your bed while you are there for a threesome.

Some women accept big bucks from men to be involved in threesomes. It is unwise and unhealthy. I repeat, end the relationship with this man.

Pastor