Dear Pastor,

I am a 22-year-old woman and I live in the United States. My problem is this, I have been seeing this guy for over a year.

We were just friends when I first met him. I asked what his name was and he told me. I found out later that he gave me wrong names, both first and last.

Then, I found out he was also married. I am still with this guy. He was lying to me from the beginning.

What should I do? Should I be angry with him or confront him nicely about it? Right now I feel messed up because something could have gone wrong. I don't know a thing about him. He lied about his age also.

T.,

Dear T.,

You should have been out of this relationship a long time ago. Why have you not kicked this man out of your life? He is a rascal.

Anyone who would give you a false name cannot be trusted. The man has taken you for a fool. He may get you into trouble. Don't be surprised if one day the police comes to see you and tell you that this man is involved in criminal activities.

Get out of his life now and if he continues to come around and tries to harass you, go and see a lawyer.

Pastor