Dear Pastor,

I have a serious problem relating to men. Every guy I date, I want to get in bed with him. The problem is I don't allow the guys to use condoms and I am putting my life at risk. Whenever a guy uses a condom and has sex with me, I get an infection. I can't do without sex. It's like I'm a sex addict.

Please, tell me what to do. I really, really need your fatherly advice.

S.P., U.S.A.

Dear S.P.,

If you are determined to have sex and you are having prob-lems with the male condoms, you should consider using female condoms. I must hasten to tell you however that I am not here encouraging you to continue your lifestyle. You know that what you are doing is not right. You may need to see a clinical psychologist. You are quite correct; you are suffering from sexual addiction.

Pastor

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