Dear Pastor,

I have a new boyfriend who always takes phone calls away from me. I believe he is speaking with his old girlfriend whom he tells me he is no longer with. And I also believe he is still carrying feelings for her.

Please, pastor, help me. This is the man I want to marry.

N.M., Birmingham, England

Dear N.M.,

You don't know this man very well. You can't be sure that he is the man that you would love to marry. The relationship is too new for you to determine that. You have doubts about him so go easy and don't make yourself a fool.

Pastor