Dear Pastor,

I am having a problem and I need your help. I am going through a situation for three years and it keeps haunting me. I have two children (twin) and I am married. The problem is that my husband may not be the father of the children. I want to tell him but I am afraid I am going to lose him.

I love him and I feel guilty. We are going to take a vacation next month, but I don't think I can go because I am expecting another child and it might not be his also. I need help and your advice.

P.S., Kingston, Jamaica

Dear P.S.,

You are a wicked wife. You have your husband and yet you have been having sex with another man and perhaps with more than one. You do not believe that your husband is the father of the twins. Even if you had made a mistake by having the twins by another man, surely you cannot say that you have made another mistake by becoming pregnant again by another man.

No, madam, that is wickedness. You don't love your husband at all. You don't care. Your husband should leave you. You are not faithful and trustworthy. You should try and find a place to go before your husband becomes aware of your deception.

Something must be radically wrong with you. You need to go for counselling. I repeat, you don't love your husband. You know you don't. So go your way in peace. Let the counsellor suggest to you when you should tell your husband that you have been fooling around another man or men. But, please leave.

Pastor