Dear Pastor,

I have a serious problem. I have two babymothers and I live with one of them. The problem is that I really want to be with the other one, but she doesn't want me.

I need a lot of help and prayer because this is a little much to deal with.

P.B., New York, U.S.A.

Dear P.B.,

Only a foolish man tries to persuade a woman who doesn't want to be intimate with him. This woman has told you that she is not interested in you anymore. Yes, both of you have a child together but that's where it stops.

You should do your best to support your children. Stick with the woman with whom you are living. Remember, when men run around and they eventually decide to settle down, they are likely to choose the wrong woman.

Pastor