Dear Pastor,

I have a problem which has been giving me hell. I have been dating a girl but I cannot please her sexually. I can go on having sex with her for hours. Don't get me wrong but sometimes I just need some rest. However, she doesn't understand that.

Do you think I should stay with her or leave?

R., St. Andrew, Jamaica

Dear R.,

You and this girl are overdoing a good thing. Both of you know how to have sex, but not how to make love. Lots of people are not interested in love making; they are interested in just having sex. It is quite evident that you are a pusher. Love making is very satisfying and that is why the Bible speaks so much about it and tells a man how to satisfy his wife.

If you and this young lady would go to church and serve God and learn how to respect each other, you can have a bright future together. If both of you love each other, God would be pleased if you get married and meet each other's sexual needs within marriage.

Pastor