Dear Pastor,

I recently visited Jamaica on a vacation and a lot of men were interested in me. One of them actually got the number for my room and called me. To be honest, I think I like him. Whenever my husband gets on my nerves I think that maybe I should have had an affair. My husband cannot keep a job for no longer than a month and doesn't want to do manly things around the house, which annoys me.

Tell me, pastor, should I replace my husband with the Jamaicans stud?

Atlanta Lady, Atlanta Georgia, U.S.A.

Dear Atlanta Lady,

Sometimes I get crazy letters from crazy people like you. Any woman who is looking for a stud can find a stud. You don't even have to come to Jamaica to find one. You can stay in Atlanta, Georgia and find them. They will give you what you want with no strings attached. But what a terrible married woman you would be. In fact, you don't even speak as a decent upright married woman. You speak as one who is loose and who would give yourself away to any man who looks macho.

You don't think much about your marriage or your husband. If every little fuss with him triggers the desire to find a 'stud', it won't be long before you act upon your feelings. Perhaps you have done so already. Learn to behave yourself, madam. Show respect to your man.

Pastor