Dear Pastor,

I am having a serious problem. I am about to get married in a few months, but my fiancée's sister is insisting that she is better for me and I should not marry her sister. She is married but she has been separated for about a year from her husband and she has filed for a divorce.

She is more financially independent than her sister and life with her would be less of a struggle, but I love my fiancée and I want to marry her, although life with her will be an uphill task.

Please help me.

C. P., Kingston, Jamaica

Dear C. P.,

You sister-in-law to be is slack. She is not a good woman. She is aware that her sister and you are lovers and that you are planning to get married. She should not come between the both of you. She is very lose and immoral. And you should not even give a second thought to what she said.

Let the woman keep her money. You wouldn't die if you are to marry the woman you love and the both of you struggle together to build a family. Don't allow her to inveigle you because the next thing she would do is to get you to go to bed with her.

Pastor