Dear Pastor,

I am a 21-year-old woman and I'm seeing a guy who is 18 years old. He recently confessed to me that he has slept with three girls since we have been together. The problem is that I want to be with him but he won't leave his mother's house and come and live with me.

I have given up so much for him and I'm willing to forgive him for the cheating. I am also three months pregnant with his child and I'm thinking of having an abortion because he is not responsible enough.

What do you think I should do, pastor?

N. G., London, England

Dear N. G.,

I hope you would behave intelligently and have your baby. You shouldn't have got pregnant for a man who is sleeping around. However, have your baby and after you have given birth you may consider whether or not you should continue having an intimate relationship with the child's father.

This guy is only 18 years old. You should not encourage him to come and live with you. You are three years older. He got you pregnant but he is still immature and not yet ready to face the world. Allow him to stay with his mom. He will give you nothing but trouble living with you.

Pastor