Dear Pastor,

I have been involved with someone who stresses me out. He told me he wanted a relationship knowing he was involved with his baby mother. She came to fight me after I was living with him for seven months. We still lived together after that. My daughter and I went to Florida for three weeks and when I came back his nephew moved his child's mother in, so I had to stay home. Ever since then, our relationship went down hill.

He got shot and I went to the hospital everyday. When he got out of the hospital it was all about his child's mother. As soon as he could move on the leg, he was at my house. The only thing that keeps me with him is the sex.

Pastor, should I just move on because he is still involved with his child's mother and probably other girls too? I'm 25 years old and so is he.

J.G., New York, U.S.A.

Dear J.G.,

The relationship with this man is purely sexual and nothing more. You have admitted that the only thing that keeps this man and you together is the sex. He doesn't respect you and neither does his nephew. Both of them wanted you out of the house. You knew that he had another woman in his life, but you liked when he had sex with you, so you will do anything to keep him. When you are tired of him having sex with you, you will tell him to go. You are not very ambitious and you don't think highly of yourself.

Pastor