Dear Pastor,

I don't trust my boyfriend. We have been dating for three years and I love him, but I don't know if he feels the same way about me. One day I searched his email and I found out that he emails his ex-girlfriend. In the letter he said that she is the only person who could make him happy. I asked him about it and he said it meant nothing. I love him and my family adores him. His family loves me too. I am wondering if I should stop seeing him.

I need your advice. Thank you and keep up the good work.

K. S., St. Ann, Jamaica

Dear K. S.,

You should expect the worst at anytime. This guy is not ready to settle down. He is with you, but he is still having an intimate relationship with his so-called ex-girlfriend. He told you that what he said to her means nothing. The question is, is he lying to her or is he lying to you?

Love is not the only criterion for couples to remain together. If a man is a liar, he cannot be trusted. If a woman is a liar, she cannot be trusted. Liars are deceivers and you can never take their word. Anyone who lies has a weakness of character. You have to make your own decision if you want to stay with this man or move on to a better life.

Pastor