Dear Pastor,

I live in the United States of America and I have been dating a man from Jamaica for seven months. In the beginning, I really trusted him. But I started checking his phone bills and noticed he has been communicating with other females at weird times in the morning. He claims it's his friends' women. I really love him and would like our relationship to strengthen, but I don't trust him.

Please help me, pastor.

M. M., California, USA

Dear M. M.,

You know he is not speaking the truth. Why should he be talking to his "friends' women" after midnight. Are these women ill and need his help? Where are their husbands? Insist that he should stop calling these women. If he continues, leave him, because you are going to have the same trouble with him if both of you get married.

Pastor