Dear Pastor,

I am in a long distance relationship. I'm in California and my boyfriend is in Jamaica. I went home last Christmas and seeing him made me happy. But, for some reason he seems to love being on the streets more then being with me. We have been together for over a year. I love him and we have talked about it.

He said he is going to change, but he hasn't. Whenever we are supposed to go out together something always comes up. And that makes me wonder a lot.

I need to know what to do. Could you give me an idea on what I can do to maintain a long distance relationship?

K.C., California, U.S.A.

Dear K.C.,

Don't put your mind on this man. You are having a long distance relationship. So whenever you are in Jamaica, he should spend much more time with you. If he is not, he is telling you by his actions that he doesn't care. I think you are wasting your time with him and you should drop him like hot bread. He probably has another woman in his life.

Pastor