Dear Pastor,

I am a 22-year-old young married woman with a 10-month-old son. I have known my husband for five years. He is my high school sweetheart, and I love him very much. In the beginning, the sex was the BOMB, however, for the last two years, the sex has been slipping. I cannot tell when was the last time I had my back blown out. I don't want to step out of my marriage, but I am very horny and my husband is not satisfying me. I spoke to him about it, but it has not changed.

Tell me what to do because I don't want to lose my marriage.

Married and Horny, Connecticut, U.S.A.

Dear Married and Horny,

I suggest that you tell your husband how you feel and ask him to accompany you to a sex therapist. When the fire has gone out of a couple's sex life, it is time to see a professional.

Pastor