Dear Pastor,

I am in a bad situation. I am having an affair with a gentleman who works at my workplace. I am deeply in love with this man and I know he is in love with me too.

The problem is that he has a girlfriend and I know about it. But I can't stop talking to him because I am in love with him. I know that probably he is not going to leave her because they have a child together. Please, pastor, tell me what to do.

T.G., St. Catherine, Jamaica

Dear T.G.,

Somebody is going to get hurt and that somebody is you.

Anyone may get involved with another, but one has to determine whether there is a future in the relationship.

You are having an affair with a co-worker, but you know that this relationship will get you into trouble. So, although it is tough on you to say no to this man, end the relationship now. Leave him to his child's mother.

Pastor