Dear Pastor,

I am an 18-year-old virgin and I have a boyfriend who is 22.

He lives in Atlanta and I live in Ohio. He is my best friend's brother who I met over the phone. I have never seen this man. I have only seen pictures of him.

To tell you the truth, he has a great sense of humour and I like him.

We have been talking over the phone for nine months. He told me that he is coming to look for me soon because he says that he loves me. I know that many guys want a girl who is a virgin, but this man has been showing me real love ever since we started talking.

He told me a lot about his life and he calls everyday and every night.

Do you think I should go out with this guy? I don't know what to do because I don't want to make a mistake and get hurt.

J.B., Ohio, U.S.A

Dear J.B.,

If this guy comes to see you, do not go anywhere with him alone. Remember you have only met him on the net and although you think he has told you everything, you need to know more.

Too many people have got into trouble with people they have met on the net and thought they knew enough about them to trust them.

People lie a lot about themselves on the net. I am not here saying that this man is lying.

I don't know, but for goodness sake protect yourself in every way. Let all your friends and relatives know every move you make with this man.

Pastor